Whatever your dating and relationship situation, Risa and Jake are here to help you with practical, down-to-earth advice from both a male and female perspective. Email your publishable* questions to bounceoffblog@gmail.com.


Risa & Jake

Bounce Off is the trans-Atlantic duo of best friends Risa Koh and Jake McMillan and together they offer both a male and female perspective to all sorts of relationships.

Risa is a no-nonsense, stylish and cool Yank currently residing in the Kingdom of Canadia. A great loyal friend who is always there to give well-reasoned practical and sensible advice.

Jake is a charming British bloke with witty remarks and sarcastic comebacks that make conversation lively and interesting. He is a lovable friend who is always available to offer keen insights on life and love - unless he has a date.

Neither is a trained psychologist, but they spend their time, like ALL the time, discussing and observing dating and relationship issues of others. Utilising their extensive knowledge and experience as well as a lifetime of nosiness and gossiping, Risa and Jake offer their free independent and impartial advice.

Haven’t there been times when you would like an un-biased view on some issue or another with your competitive colleague, BFF, elusive crush, overbearing mother, or romantic partner? Well, now you have it.